The concepts of he and she are embedded in human language, because we are biological beings.  These concepts only make sense within a biological sex-based context.  Outside of biology, we still assign sex to inanimate objects.  A ship is a she, for instance.  But assigning gender to God?  It is absurd to call God by gender-based pronouns if God is only one God.  God does not have reproductive organs. Why would the one and only true God reproduce?